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This afternoon in Ulaanbaatar I was sitting in a coffee shop in a shopping mall trying to make the best of the flaky Wi-Fi there.

A local guy who was obviously slightly drunk arrived and joined my table and decided to befriend me even though we did not have a language in common.

The guy was in his thirties, had a family, and was an artist and rock musician. Once he decided we were now friends he put his hands around me and made an action like kissing my cheek. My policy is when in Rome do as the Romans, and go with the flow. Instead of making contact with my cheek it seemed he took one sniff.

This took place one or two more times before he left. Once while the waitress was there serving as interpreter. She didn't change her expression to suggest it was something unusual, or more unusual than a drunk customer.

Is this a customary thing between men in Mongolia? I hadn't seen it before and I've spent a day or two hanging out with local truck drivers. What was this guy doing? Where can I learn about this?

Vincent
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Yes, it is. You can read so on some pages, for example this one:

Mongolians greeting one another rarely kiss each other on the cheek. An older person will often grasp the head of a one younger during the greeting and smell their hair or face.

This book has a whole section of the meaning of body odors in the Mongolian culture.

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I am from Mongolia. Mongolian's do tend to sniff cheeks as a lovely gesture. For example, I would sniff my parent's cheeks and my family's cheeks.

Isabel
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Traditionally Mongolians don't kiss, they do kind of sniffing. I find it nicer and cleaner rather than to be kissed and feel someone's saliva on my cheek.

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