Unlike other airlines, when flying with RyanAir assume you'll be sitting apart from the person you fly with unless you pay for seats. RyanAir deny they deliberately separate people but they are clearly lying about this.
Since there's been a lot of discussion about the side point of whether RyanAir's policy of separating people on their flights can count as "deliberate". There is a technical sense in which you could argue you that it is not - what they seem to be doing is simply allocating each customer a seat at random rather than what (almost?) every other airline does and trying to place customers who booked together next to each other when possible whilst doing this allocation. However, in my opinion, the choice of how to assign seats is clearly a deliberate act and thus RyanAir's decision to go against that counts as them deliberately separating people.
Back in 2018, a CAA survey found that RyanAir were already separating passengers over twice as often (35% of passengers) as was normal for other airlines. However, although I can't prove it, I am quite certain that they changed their method of seating after this time to make it much worse. Certainly it was after this time that everyone I know who flew RyanAir found themselves being separated, and when I experienced the same.
Personally, for us, this was the point that we decided RyanAir had gone too far and decided to never fly with them again. It's one thing to charge for actual extras that better airlines include for free. It is quite another to deliberately make the experience worse unless you pay them.